Desolation Method Educate Children?

Desolation Method Educate Children? 

In a breakfast cereal ad, to describe how delicious cereal is described a child who makes a trick on her by asking her to look back - as if there is something interesting on the back of her mother's - just so he can add it to cereal in a bowl. Although the main purpose of this ad is not to educate the children, however, have shown why children who make a trick to add breakfast? Why is not shown only how the child asks politely additional cereal?

The ad was a cough, is shown how a group of children trying to steal the fruit. So, running an old fled - your trees - closer to the child to be angry with them. Running the old man made ​​him coughing non-stop. Then, the child is going to get the tree you just now, which then gives the signal to take the cough medicine at home. Apparently, you just trees recover after drinking cough syrups.

What need to display the behavior of children who want to steal it? Could not display the child is doing something good, such as sports or reading or doing a science assignment?

Similarly, the "death poem" the other day. When I first saw the report on TV, the author does not agree with the method of educating children. Stance remains the same author after reading the various responses in the newspaper.

After watching themselves, the authors are confident and sure, the video was not supposed to be on display for children aged between 7-8 years. Also because of the funeral of berkafan as the main character of the video - the author certainly, many adults who are not happy to see, much less about the children - what causes it is not suitable for children, is because bytes of words used in poetry it is far from the reality of life of the child.

For example, the corpse regretting past actions as "acting like God", "do not take the character of God", "dispersed people," "abuse of power and money", "stop people repent" and "destroy the economy of Muslims".

The errors that are easily understood by adults because it is close to their lives. However, the extent of the child at the age of 7-8 years, which is a video viewer, it can associate themselves with those errors? Unless if the offenses specified as "stealing pink Pak Ali" or "cheating capital" or "pierced skin a cat"!

Looking at the last such advertisements and video poems death claimed to be a good way to educate the children, the authors wonder, already bereft akalkah us in finding a suitable and effective method for this purpose?

Abdullah nasih Ulwan, in his Children's Education in Islam says that effective ways to educate their children are: (i) to set an example; (ii) to familiarize the child to practice good things; (iii) to advise and guide; (iv) to observe and monitor; and, (v) to penalize and punish.

Although he did mention something about having the feeling frightened and terrified when advising the child and give punishment to the scary and daunting, but, either way this is a fraction of the dozens of other more effective ways of educating children.

In fact, he also stressed that these children differ from each other. Some will be corrected when the mother or the father glanced small cough. There is also a need to verbally reprimanded. In fact, there are some who just stopped for kelaku after the hand stopped at his parent body. In other words, children need to be educated according to his personality. Thus, it is not fair if we think only one video can educate a class, let alone a school.

However, there is a tendency in our society to use bad example in an effort to encourage people to be good. For example, in the TV drama, especially the so-called 'nature of Islam', the main character is often portrayed as a very evil and has committed various sins, before the turn for the better.

Similarly, in an effort to educate the public to sympathize and care for HIV / AIDS patients, often highlighted how the patient is insulted, vilified and ostracized, even intending to kill him, before eventually everyone will realize their mistake. Why can not the actual Muslim community highlighted by nature humane and sensitive to people like this?

Actually it is easier to invite people to be good to give a good example. But somewhere we went wrong, many prefer a convoluted way to invite people to goodness.

In the era of information technology, there are many interesting ways that can be considered to educate children to become good. Because the audience is children, choose a simple and straight way. If we want them to be good, a good example. Not a bad example that he knew what was good. Crude mind will be difficult to understand the convoluted thing. Furthermore in the case of religion, choose a method that can attract them to Islam. Not otherwise.